My Pep-Talk from actual experience:
I recently experienced a horrible thing called a breakup. Or it was practically a breakup..it was a confusing breakup. Though the unexpected happened. I mean like really unexpected. What was it? I was happy. Like really happy. Like cruel happy. Like who is so happy after breaking up with someone!!! Well I am. I used to say "good" out of habit when people asked how I was. Most times I wasn't good. Not even close to good. But now when people ask I say "Fantastic!". Honestly I started thinking to myself "Damn Libs, Chill why are you soo happy?". Then I talked to my aunt and I realized why I was so happy. "If someone isn't making you happy then cut them out of your life". I had been so caught up in him never leaving me that I never realized how much pain he was causing me. Imagine that. Imagine someone inserting a knife inside you and you not wanting them to leave so bad that you didn't notice they were hurting you or you just didn't mind. The stress in my life was lifted off my shoulders. Every day now I look in the mirror and smile saying yes you a badass. You broke up with him and now? Now you are fantastic. You feel fantastic. You even look fantastic. Truth is how are you? Fantastic. Learn to take bad people out of your life. Learn to realize they aren't any good. Learn to breakup with the pain. The stress. Breakup for YOUR advantage.

I find this a really funny and inspiring thing that happened to me. Post on my wall if you liked it and tell me if it helped you!! Thank you for your time. This is truly life changing.