Oh also one more thing..a little cursing but gurlll you can take it! P.s. it boosts the message.I see around me suicide. I see around me self-cutting. Self-scratching. Self-hating. Self-harm in all. All of this comes from a place of negativity. Now, my badass friend. I'm gonna list 2 quick techniques on how to fix this.

See the good in everything: This definitely takes practice. But girl you can literally do anything. If you don't believe me then think about the saying: "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink" meaning: no one can MAKE you eat. Or MAKE you drink. Or MAKE you sing. Or MAKE you draw. Nobody can make you do anything. You decide what you do and you my friend can MAKE anything happen.You decide what you will do to get there. If you MAKE yourself get there then you will. Anyways, I need you to try,to practice,to make this habit. To make habit of seeing something good in everything.If you have trouble seeing the good in anything this is one you can always use while your'e on Earth: you are still alive and God is by your side. So see positive=be positive!

Don't make it published: Nothing is set until you MAKE it set. Like we said yo decide what happens and what doesn't. So let's say you are lazy right? Ok don't read memes about being lazy,don't think "I am lazy". Don't say you are. Don't write stories about it. Don't write it on paper. Why? I'll tell you why my dear amazing friend,because once you hear,say,write,publish it enough it becomes true. Or at least to you. You may not even be fat. You may not even be ugly. You may not even be dumb. But if you say it enough,honey you will believe it. So the key to being positive is saying,writing,seeing,publishing that you are in fact positive. Even if you aren't telling the world,telling yourself you are makes it true soon enough.